Bitchy But With Integrity

I feel very strongly that something very ominous is looming ahead. Whatever it is, it will happen very soon.

And the worse thing is, I can do nothing about it. I mean, I can advise and all, but my words carry no weight whatsoever.

Things are definitely going to turn ugly. It doesn't involve me directly, but in such close proximity, I WILL BE by and large affected adversely.

And my keeping quiet about it is not going to get this message across. Of course I want to speak out. I always speak out. But as I've said, my words hold no weight. It's a fact I've more or less confirmed over numerous past experiences.

I hope this wave of negativity pass soon.

Anyways, if you realise that someone close to you got into an 'unhealthy' relationship (Thai hooker, Chinese hooker, bar hostess, stripper, transexual, homosexual, sugar daddy, etc.), what do you do?

It's no point getting all jumpy and furious over it. And the last thing you'd want to do is jump right in between and break them up. Adult matters should be settled amicably in an adult manner.

One other very tragic thing to do is to spread the word around; resulting in these people getting furious and wanting to jump in and break the couple up too. I mean, it's okay if you just confide in few close people. But at this rate, it's more like airing dirty laundry than confiding.

I ULTRA HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE AIR DIRTY LAUNDRY.

Today, a third party called me as she kaypoh-ed into the affair and updated me on the progress. Concerned, definitely, but I just feel the approach totally wrong and somewhat unethical.

Oh yes, I also fucking hate it when kaypoh people do nothing much to help, but DO A LOT to kinda just worsen the situation. I think we just naturally like to play with fire; just add oil lah, see the fire rage high up into the sky; after all the fire not burning your house what.

The third party filled me in on the details I wasn't too interested to know and then suggested that I see for myself what was going on. In short and in general, she asked me to intrude the privacy of others.

I was shocked as to how she can even suggest such an audacious act. An audacious act for me to carry out some more! How unethical is that, right?

I may be a bitch, but I'm definitely not without integrity. I simply cannot tolerate underhanded and unscrupulous methods of carrying out thiings. Furthermore, I know very well I'll get mashed up real good if my misdeed gets found out.

My life may be rather shitty at the moment, but I still intend on keeping it.

P.S. I have nothing against having 'unhealthy' relationships. Hookers, homos, transgenders, etc. are still people. Simply casting them by profession or orientation is unfair and capable only by people who are narrow-minded. I happen to loathe narrow-mindedness too.